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jcleo
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 Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2003 10:45 pm Post subject: does age-gap relationship lasting? |
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in this modern era, age-gap relationship seems not a big deal.
however, does it lasting?
for guy, r u willing to hv a relationship with a woman who is much more older than u? lets say u r 23yrs old and she is 33yrs old, do u care? |
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terrence
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| I think it is better if you can tell us what is your opinion rather than asking a bunch of question in here. |
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jcleo
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| terrence wrote: | | I think it is better if you can tell us what is your opinion rather than asking a bunch of question in here. |
for my opinion, i think age-gap relationship between a gal who is much younger than a guy isnt a problem. at least he can be accepted by her family coz believe that he can take care of her whole life. this type of relationship may up to the stage of marriage though been criticised by others. they still will hv a happy family at last if possible. but if between a guy who is much younger than a gal, then it will be a problem. for sure the guy's family will unwilling to accept her. people will think that just like a big sister dating with little brother and hv to take care of him all the while. finally they will ended up with 'good bye'. however, my concept may not be 100% accurate. this just my opinion, ok? if u guys out there think that my opinion is unacceptable, then y dont just speak out and let me know what u r thinking? no matter how....i cant accept a guy who is younger than me more than 2 yrs old. |
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seah_chau_chyun
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As long as you love each other......It is Okay......Even though in this modern era......There are still perception of an older female marries a younger male......But it is okay for an older male to marry younger female......
From my point of view......I prefer to marry a younger partner......But I can accept to marry an older partner......
The age-gap......I can accept the maximum is three......  |
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jcleo
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| i think there will be a very low percentage of young guys married with old women (i mean those really have a wide age-gap=more than 5 yrs old). if have 10 couples out there, sure not more than 1 of them are the match of young guy and old woman....even non of them are. |
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alvinhan
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this is in fact an interesting topic. again, personally, it doesnt matter for me, an older lady is much more better, i like those who can take care and look after my daily needs.  as for age, maybe can up to 5-8 years older than me, not sure, havent meet any.
but anyhow, just back to the reality, even i can accept, what will be the parents thinking? and can the current local society accept it? this is the only poor side.
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jcleo
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| alvinhan wrote: | | personally, it doesnt matter for me, an older lady is much more better, i like those who can take care and look after my daily needs. as for age, maybe can up to 5-8 years older than me, not sure, havent meet any. |
wow...u really can accept that? that's right, an older lady maybe will be more matured than u when come to a decision. but are u sure that she can take care of ur daily needs? maybe she is the type of play-gal???
| alvinhan wrote: | | but anyhow, just back to the reality, even i can accept, what will be the parents thinking? and can the current local society accept it? this is the only poor side. |
if the age-gap isnt so wide(maybe around 1-3 yrs old), i think no one will recognise about that if u dont tell. but if there is a age-gap more than 5 yrs old, hehehe....everyone will know except the lady may has a charming baby face. if ur parents love u, sure they will accept her even she is much more older than u. about the society, is nothing regarding with them, love affair isnt under their control. so...no need to be worry about that..... |
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It will never work. Two totally different mind set of human being how can together for a long time. Just imagine, if you just pass twenty, young, energetic and playful. You enjoy all kind of outdoor games, enjoy clubbing and so on... Will your older partner who near 50 can accompany you for that. More sarcastic when talk about sex, will an old man able to fullfill a young lady needs???  |
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jcleo
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is true that 2 different mind set of human being difficult to live together but this isnt means impossible. there still have many age-gap couples around us.
for me, of course i cant accept such a wide age-gap caused he will be unable to enjoy all kind of excitement in life with me. when talking about sex, u know that nowadays we have this kind of medicine called "viagra"...so sex affair wont be the problem for old man with his young wife.
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Khamis
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You don't need "Viagra", you need "blachan & sambal oyster"  |
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jcleo
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| Khamis wrote: | | You don't need "Viagra", you need "blachan & sambal oyster" |
of course i don't need "viagra", but why "blachan & sambal oyster"?  i never heard about that those things will help for SEX. 
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Khamis
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| Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2003 7:13 am Post subject: sambal oyster |
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Oyster has ZINC, etc... the Japanese likes to eat it raw, squeeze a bit of lime...hmmmmm
It's better when you have sambal blachan oyster.
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jcleo
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i dont eat blachan....hehehe.....so dont know how nice the taste is... 
khamis, we are going out of topic.... 
ok...back to topic...
dont mind tell me how old are you now? you have the right to quit this question.
do you mind to have a young girl...lets say younger than you more than 10 years old to be your life partner?
if yes, will it lasting? if no, why?
feel free to share your opinion....
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Khamis
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| Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2003 7:05 am Post subject: jcleo |
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Young enough to sweep your heart away...
10 years younger, that's good enough--spring chicken to me. 
Last long enough as long as U last long enough...  |
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jcleo
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"spring chicken to you"....  ....
anyway....age deosnt matter for you to find a life partner, is it?
mmm....that's very good....i should learn from you to accept a man older than me much much more....
of course....nothing will be long lasting even our life are the same. 
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