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jesslyn
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 Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2004 1:49 pm Post subject: wat should i do....?? |
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its been 4 months we get together.
at the beginning, we'll meet everyday.
but recently we din't meet anymore, cause he always hav reason why he can't go out. even i went to meet him also can't.
i hav the feelings that he change oledi, he seldom call or sms me anymore. is me  the one keeps calling him...
i'm very tired to call him and ask him to go out. but i very suffer when i miss him very much... 
i'm very scared one day he say someting tat i really don't want it happen... |
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jcleo
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hi, jesslyn. nice name har....
4 months...hmm...not a long period, and i believed that ur relationship isn't in a stable stage. try more harder...
one thing that u have to make clear is, does he really love u as his gf or just pure friends' love?
sometimes friends may be "over-care" till make another party misunderstand or confuse with what they mean to.
stop calling or sms him, control urself. be patient and wait for him to call u again.
after sometimes, if he didn't. then it is the time for u to forget about him.
else, ask him directly what is in his mind? u cant read his mind, what he is thinking, no body know. most of the while, women's senses are not accurate, so is better to ask him rather than guessing what he is thinking about. he seldom contact u may be he is busy, doesnt mean that he has changed.
bf and gf meet up everyday isnt a good idea to maintain a relationship, give each others some privacy and freedom. i m sure u also wanna be alone sometimes, doin ur own stuff.
u cant prevent something happened, try to accept the fact will be more realistic for ur life. bless u good luck!
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jesslyn
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| Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2004 9:00 am Post subject: |
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yes, i agree tat we are not at stable stage.... but im sure is he started chasing me when he saw me for the first time, i don't know how to evaluate this love...
i did ask him all the question that u suggest before, but he just reply nothing happen, dun be sensitive....
maybe u r right.. we doesn't need to meet everyday...
i'll try to stop contact him...
thanks for ur advices....
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april13
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jesslyn, don't stop contact him completely... or else his feeling towards you might be faded... instead, call him once in a while but not too often.....
if you don't feel like talking to him, send him an e-card instead... it helps to deliver your love to him too... cheers! |
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jcleo
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| jesslyn wrote: | | i did ask him all the question that u suggest before, but he just reply nothing happen, dun be sensitive.... |
to have a sensitive gals will be better than have a careless gals.
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kucingkiut
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don't over react. give him space to breath. u don't have to meet every day or talk every single minute. if u realy love each other, u will keep one another in your mind and in your heart.
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jesslyn
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mayb u guys r right... last few days i control myself no to contact him... then he call me... we go out like nothing happen before...
mayb im too sensitive..  thanks for ur opinion...  |
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jcleo
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great to hear that from u, jesslyn. 
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seah_chau_chyun
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Yahoo......!!!!!!
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kent
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good for you killian... snag is, it's in a lots of other people's dictionaries.  |
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Yes, I noticed. And those people are called Racist/Fatist/Thinnist and could join the Anti for everything including theirself Club.
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| JCLEO..you're so good...i like urs style... |
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