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is distance a problem ??
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30-Sep-2006, 08:02 AM
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sr215 Wrote:Well, I would say it works for me, I mean, me and my gf still together after almost 3 years separated but honestly, there's always a problem in terms of trust (and sometimes loyalty). i believe that it works for you.. 3 years, and one day you two maybe together in real. my friend has long distance relationship over 6 years.. even after getting married, they still live apart seeing each other 3 times a year i think. my colleague married for so many years, husband working offshore, and they have been together for almost 15 years.. living apart, and she always said she misses her husband, and the kids as well. |
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18-Nov-2006, 08:27 AM
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Distance 'USUALLY' invites extra marital affairs or scandals....
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19-Nov-2006, 10:21 PM
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agree.... I know few cases in Labuan
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20-Nov-2006, 12:35 PM
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kucingkiut Wrote:agree.... I know few cases in Labuan any chance of sharing in this forum... heheh :lol: |
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28-Dec-2006, 02:05 PM
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gal u really need to listen to me:
me and her 7 years been a long togther but now end-up with nothing. long distance relationship is not good and very hard to develop it. please frankly speaking you can't be 100% being honest to each other. my final advise leave him or her and find the closer one . Don't waste ur precious time. |
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26-Jul-2007, 03:28 PM
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 HEYO...well im in a dist rel.d situation is the same.both of us r working n won't be able to transfer.im in kuch,my wife in miri..its still far for us..luckily they invented hp..hehehe.bt for me,everytime there's holiday..im surely be by herside..the more parted the more love we gain..hehe
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27-Jul-2007, 12:56 PM
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I have a friend, he's in Miri his girlfriend in the US. They meet a few times a year for holiday and they're still together.
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31-Jul-2007, 01:05 PM
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Harun, how, subjective. Extra marital affairs is accecptable, Scandals? Now that is very subjective .....
What may be a scandle to you, from an outsiders viewpoint and not having the whole story, maybe a very sensible move by the person involved. It's the 21 century now ...... Anyway does distance matter? Of course it does, what a daft question! Someone else living on another planet. |
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16-Aug-2007, 06:12 PM
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I'm not an expert here, but these were and are my experiences. Long distance relationship is never - ever - easy. When you need his/her touch, his/her real voice (not through some contraptions) and his/her hugs when things didn't go well - then it is the hardest moment of all. You need loads of patience and loads of self-discipline. When the other is depressed, you must be able to cheer him/her up even though you don't feel like it and you must be strong emotionally to withstand the loneliness. Still feel like going further?
Then there's the money issue. You will have to spend a lot of money on phone bills (and air ticket bills and hotel bills etc). Still worth it? Look into your own heart. I know I have learned of my own weakness and strength through this patience, and how much money I have left in my bank account by the end of the month. ^_^ However, due to the distance, we don't take each other for granted. We treasure our time spent together and we are more serious to work things out between us. So, I don't have any regrets. Even if I don't end up with him in the future, it doesn't matter. I have learned to love, to live and to enjoy whatever I have. |
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21-Sep-2007, 01:13 PM
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:roll: :roll:
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26-May-2008, 03:19 PM
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Hey girl, ok, if it makes you feel better, I am having a distant relationship as well. We both are working and both are officially broke. Heheh! And also we contact through phone or internet. However, let me tell you one phrase which I believ its very true. If he is meant for you, then he is meant for you. I say that because of my past experience with my boyfriend. We met online and we started off chatting and on web cam, and then we called each other and suddenly one fine day, without me knowing, he appeared in Labuan! And mind you, he is not Malaysian. He brought me back to his country at times and we both met each other parents and now we plan on getting engage so thats why I say if he's meant for you, than he will be eventually. You can ask me anything and I'm glad to help, just holler ok? Bye girlfriend. :wink:
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13-Apr-2011, 06:52 PM
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RE: is distance a problem ??
It will last only if neither of you will meet someone else who is closer and interesting. If you are really crazy about each other you can always find a solution to move some place else.
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22-Apr-2011, 05:05 PM
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RE: is distance a problem ??
In chinese there is a phrase: The most far distance between 2 ppl is when i stand in front of you , you still cant feel the love of me on you!
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30-Apr-2011, 12:11 PM
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RE: is distance a problem ??
never believe long distance..good luck
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27-Mar-2012, 06:24 PM
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RE: is distance a problem ??
distance i not a prob at all . the important thing is that u must call him or her . i know what i did wrong after watching this already. so u make sure u call her now to tell him or her how u feel .
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