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26-Jul-2006, 04:06 PM
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but spider.. to have arguement with love ones really different to having arguement to parents, or friends.... it hurts
because it is hard to handle your own emotional feeling and to maintain his/her emotional feelings.. hard to please your partner the way you wish it to be.. if you know what i mean. |
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26-Jul-2006, 04:08 PM
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sure it hurts... :arrow: keeping it to a level of tolerable is possible, right?
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26-Jul-2006, 04:11 PM
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not easy man.. thats why i choose to lock myself up when ever there is an intense arguement up
 but... we always resolve the problem after that.. ... its always easy (well for us anyway) to talk about the matter again after we settle down. |
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28-Jul-2006, 05:58 PM
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very much a sensible approach...
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28-Jul-2006, 07:13 PM
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I see Druidy. In the end you have to ditch the emotion crap and get down to hard facts and logic.....
Just about coming around to my hard nose approach to life. Ans so you should if you trained as a Civil..... |
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29-Jul-2006, 11:47 AM
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well not easy to be civilised when come to arguements and conflicts
:wink: :wink: :wink: |
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01-Aug-2006, 05:02 PM
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I was brought up to believe that even the worst kind of argument could never result in separation. Just take my parents for instance. Back then, at one point, they probably had the kind of disagreement that many would bet heftily on the roulette of marriage annulment.
In end, my parents continuously pull the wool over somebody's eyes. They remain joining at the hips. - a small piece taken out of something i wrote recently, thought i share that - |
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02-Aug-2006, 05:57 PM
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very interesting view and belive!
i prefer to avoid arguement as much as i can! |
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04-Aug-2006, 04:31 PM
Post: #39
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fine by me... each of us have our own way of getting things off the ground...
avoiding argument is good, but don't avoid the issue though. that could be drastic, as issue doesn't go away. |
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04-Aug-2006, 05:13 PM
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very very very true spider.....
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12-Aug-2006, 05:03 PM
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An issue will stay an issue till it is solved and i believe the best way is to openly discuss about it without raising each other's blood pressure
 Then again, having an understanding on each other's expectations are also very crucial in coming out with a solution to the issue.....
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14-Aug-2006, 02:38 PM
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to share smth again, abt my friend's parents:
husband: knowing the wife often speaks nonsense wife: knowing the husband gets angry easily both of them know the others, but they would still get at each other throat. the husband will say something and the wife will give a silly reply, the husband become frustrated and mad and the argument begins... what is wrong with this?? what if the husband brushes off his wife's comment with a laugh... and the wife starts making sense of herself, especially around her husband... problem solved! but not entirely, relationship doesn't work that way, and people do not just wake up one morning and decide to change. understanding or not, expectation or not... how far a relationship goes depend on the two... even if it means argument. |
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14-Aug-2006, 02:58 PM
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THE BREAKUP
starring Jennifer Aniston & Vince Vaughn... directed by Peyton Reed a romantic comedy... not i say more.. what it and you will know what i mean :roll: |
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14-Aug-2006, 04:21 PM
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john wanted to watch that movie but i said no.. wait for the dvd
is it a good movie? sorry off topic ya |
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15-Aug-2006, 09:42 AM
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druidy Wrote:john wanted to watch that movie but i said no.. wait for the dvd boleh tahan lah... get the dvd if it means cheaper than getting two movie tix... |
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